1. Insecurity

Sometimes when you love someone with all your heart and soul, even the most confident person can feel insecure. Perhaps you are just feeling unloved, unappreciated and therefore unwanted. And while no one likes to think they are not wanted by the one they love, sometimes it’s easier to imagine there is another person and therefore shift the blame. Try and look at your relationship and determine if there really could be someone else or if maybe your insecurities are the problem. If it is you who are insecure then talk to you partner about how you are feeling, perhaps they are unaware of how you feel and these doubts you have can easily be resolved.

2. Jealousy

Occasional jealousy can be a good thing for a relationship it shows you still care about your partner enough that you don’t want someone else to be with them and can even be ego boosting. However, when jealousy becomes extreme and unreasonable it can destroy relationships.

Jealousy can feed on the slightest detail, has a large appetite and can cloud judgement. Simply looking at a person you find attractive can cause your partner to experience pangs of jealousy. Jealousy can be caused by the fear of your partner wanting someone more than you.

Yet again it’s best to talk about your feelings of jealousy, tell your partner you are scared of them leaving you and then it’s not blaming or accusing them of doing something wrong, they may not even be aware that they are doing that thing.

3. Relationship is ending

Often when relationships are ending, both parties are aware. Maybe the sex has stopped; they are in separate beds, living separate lives now. It’s very hard to let go of someone you once thought the world of and expected to spend your life with. You will probably have had constant arguments, the spark has gone out of your relationship and the end is nigh. Many people stay with partners they no longer love due to the fear of being alone. But is not healthy for either of these people, and the fear should be faced in order to move on. Love has to leave your life in order that it can enter again.

4. They are cheating on you

If you can see no other fault in your relationship and no other signs as to why you suspect your partner is cheating on you, after all you know them better than anyone else so if you suspect something is wrong then it most probably is so on for my tips on catching a cheater!

These are reasons that aroused my suspicions in my ex partner however you should always remember that a person is innocent until proven guilty.

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